NEARLY 25 years ago Helen Karipidis was happily playing outside
her family's home a few days before Christmas - by the time she was
called in for dinner the 10-year-old had vanished.
Yesterday an inquest into her disappearance heard she could have been
planning to run away to escape an allegedly abusive home.
Helen had been sharing a house at Marrickville, in Sydney's inner
west, with her six siblings for only a month after her parents' relationship
broke down and her mother Voula Karipidis was awarded custody, the inquest
was told.
Sergeant George Lolis, assisting the coroner, said police had
investigated and ruled out various scenarios including a family member or
stranger killing her, or that she had run away.
But Anne Martin, a teacher who formed a "close relationship" with
Helen's older sister Maria after the disappearance, told the inquest she
heard disturbing allegations of abuse.
"(Maria) told me their father was fiercely violent at times towards
them ... they were both very afraid of (him)," she said.
Maria, who was 12 at the time her sister vanished, and who committed
suicide when aged 18, claimed Helen was "preparing to run away and had
wrapped her Christmas presents early", Ms Martin said.
"(Maria) felt responsible because she said she should have gone with
her that night."
The girls' father Theo Karipidis and mother, who were in court for the
inquest, suggested Maria had been prone to "making things up", but Ms Martin
said she had always found her to be truthful.
The inquest continues.
The Sydney schoolgirl who vanished without a trace just metres from her home
For a group of siblings playing in the yard of a Sydney housing
complex the street lights buzzing to life each evening was their
signal it was time to head home.
It was Thursday, December 22, 1988 and four of the six Karipidis
children were playing just metres from their townhouse in Sydney’s
inner west.
Yet on that summer evening, as the street lights flickered and the
yard emptied of games of handball and childhood laughter,
nine-year-old Helen Karipidis was nowhere to be seen.
“What I remember is we were outside playing and my mum or dad told
us to go back inside and I think Helen was playing with this girl -
they used to live in the complex... she was the last person to see
Helen,” Ilias Karipidis, one of Helen’s brothers, told nine.com.au.
“They (Helen’s two friends) were with her til about 4.30pm or 5pm
and come about 7pm that’s when we started looking everywhere,” he
said. “We called the police straight away.”
Ilias was just 10 when his sister, the quietest of the Karipidis
children, with her sweet smile and kind brown eyes, failed to pile
through the front door for dinner.
It is an understatement to say the Karipidis family have lived a
traumatic existence in the almost 30 years since Helen went missing.
During this time, they’ve lived with whispers that one of their own,
their father Theo, was involved in Helen’s disappearance.
Separately, there has also been the claim Helen was abducted and
killed by an underground paedophile network.
“The worst thing is not knowing,” Ilias said.
“My dad believes, he reckons, it was social workers (who took Helen)
because they had a lot to do with my mum around that time too.”
Theo Karipidis was a former labourer of Greek heritage, who back in
1988, spoke little English. He was suspected by NSW Police of his
daughter’s disappearance.
When Helen vanished, Theo was on workers’ compensation and
struggling with alcohol addiction. Media at the time indicated his
alcoholism meant his children were exposed to violence at home. Some
even claimed the violence compelled Helen to flee.
Ilias is quick to set the record straight about his father and any
involvement he may have had in Helen’s disappearance.
“They tried to paint my dad as a bad person,” he said of police and
media reports back in 1988.
“He’s still an alcoholic but he’s changed now. Helen going missing
changed him dramatically and brought him closer to his family. No
family out there should ever go through this shocking ordeal.
“I believe the family sort of fell apart when Helen went missing. I
think her disappearance probably... that probably set Maria off, she
went downhill.”
Maria Karipidis, who was around 13 at the time of Helen going
missing, suffered from mental illness. She would take her own life
at just 18.
Ilias also speaks openly about the public portrayal of Helen as a
runaway and the ghoulish manner her name continues to be linked
online to allegations of murder.
“It was out of character for her to go missing. That’s why it was
such a big shock back then,” he said.
“She was innocent... she was more the saint. She just had a good
heart. She was a really good person.”
Ilias first became aware of the claims Helen had been killed while
searching online one night. He had stumbled across a video in which
a woman claimed her children knew what happened to Helen.
“Straight away I just got goose bumps,” Ilias said.
He said he immediately set about searching for the woman. They would
eventually speak.
“She said ‘we tried to get in contact’,” he said.
He said when he asked to speak with the woman's children to hear
firsthand their claims but he never heard back.
“For someone to make allegations and you don’t want to come and meet
and fill me in, it makes no sense,” he said.
“People out there, like, who want to spread lies, keep it to
yourself. If you can’t bring facts and prove it then keep it to
yourself.”
Nine.com.au has contacted the woman for comment.
Ilias said the conversation with the woman left him with more
questions than answers.
“My mum just brushed it off,” he said when he told his mother, Voula,
about the claims.
“She remembers everything that went back on. She remembers we never
went to any Sunday church.
“I’m not saying whatever happened to them didn’t happened to them,
but we didn’t go to any church. The only church we went to was a
Greek church on Livingstone road.”
As well as alleging her children told her about Helen’s
disappearance, the woman claimed they also told a psychiatrist named
Dr Annie Schlebaum.
Dr Schlebaum, who is now retired, remembers Helen and the children
when nine.com.au contacts her. However, she admits to no longer
having their files.
“The children were quite detailed and consistent in their
information, but hardly anybody believed them - as was the general
attitude to ritual abuse although there were many proven cases
overseas,” she said in an email.
“The police, Royal Commission and YACS FACS Child Welfare under
different names found it all too hard and took the easy way out by
disbelief. I'm sure it happened, and there was credible evidence.”
At a 2012 inquest into Helen’s vanishing, the NSW Coroner ruled the
schoolgirl had likely been abducted and killed. Despite the
findings, no one has been charged with Helen’s suspected death.
Helen’s family urge anyone with information into her disappearance
to please contact authorities. In 1989, one year after Helen
disappeared, the NSW government announced a $50,000 reward for any
information on Helen. Ilias hopes the reward will prompt someone to
come forward.
“No matter how big or small the information, it’s the hardest thing
not knowing what happened to her,” he said.
Anyone with any information is urged to contact Crime Stoppers on
1800 333 000.